Nanay's Love: Unconditional ♥

Mom, Mommy, Mama, Mum, Mamita, Mamu


But for me


She is my Nanay. My Mother.

A Mother's Love is truly unconditional.
It knows no limit & boundaries.


Every woman could be a Mother but only a few knows the real meaning of Motherhood.


I am one those daughters who could say " I am proud of my Mother ".
She has been a great role model for me. 
She taught me values that made me the kind of person I am.
She showed me how to love my friends and respect my acquaintances.
She showed me how to be tough and be independent. 
She trusted my strength and allowed me to explore the world on my own.
She believed in my capabilities and prayed for my success.
There are countless of admiration I could say about her.


But the best thing about her is..


The warmth of her embrace when she hugs me and my sister when we sleep together.
It's the best feeling in the world cos you know you are at HOME.

He is not broke. Just a Brokenhearted Man.

It's heartbreaking to see that the person who once broke your heart before is now going through the same heartache. Being cheated, lied, taken for granted and completely neglected. All those same negative feelings you once had, he is now facing it. Sometimes you think its good riddance and say he deserves the pain.

 But you don't understand why you can't find it in your heart to rejoice and rub it in his face that a broken heart really sucks.You still care for this person and feel sorry that he has to go through the same excruciating pain. Despite what you've gone through because of him,You still wish with an honest heart that you could just take the feelings away. Maybe because your love for him is true that you'd rather spare him from going through it all cos you know how a broken heart can change every part of your being.

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What I like about US ♥

When I think about us and our times together, it makes me smile.
It makes me feel how thankful I am because  I have you with me.
What I like about us is, we say "I LOVE YOU" and I can feel in my heart that we mean it.
A day or two would be long enough for us not to say "I MISS YOU". 
And no matter how pissed off we are, we compromise and say "I'M SORRY"  for real.
What I like about us is, we learn how to get along on things that we argue about and say "YOU CAN HAVE IT YOUR WAY".
We have different likes & dislikes but we respect each other's uniqueness and say "IT"S OK".
We have our opinion and point of views but we share the same sentiments and say "I RESPECT THAT".

What I like about us is, we give each other space to do the things we like and say "HAVE FUN"
We have our own MY TIME and give each other room to be alone and say "SEE YOU LATER"
We have our own sets of friends and we allow each other spend time with them and say "ENJOY".
I would never stop saying THANK YOU for coming into life because I have never felt this special. 
You made me feel that it's been worth the wait.
It's not about being with the perfect person but being with someone who's been right for you all along. 
And everyday is a day to look forward to because you will have more things to like about each other.

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I am SINGLE.. and you'd have to be....

"I'm Single" is a term most women want to boycott. Because it's like saying "I'm so ugly, fat, boring & undesirable." It's always overwhelming to say "Yes, I have a boyfriend and we've been together for.." Because it means " I'm so beautiful that my guy is so gaga over me." 

From a woman's perspective, when you view your profile and it says in a relationship with.. or engaged with.. or married to.. It is an accomplishment of beauty. Beauty in knowing that out of the billions of women on this earth, this guy desired to be with you. But is it really all about beauty? There are a lot of pretty girls I know who are still single. There are also those not-so pretty girls who can have two or more guys at the same time. 

Being single for quite sometime has made me ponder over so many aspects. Does anybody see me as someone appealing or I'll just be one of those what they will call a "spinster"? People have criticized me for being picky and choosy with people I engage with. I have to admit I am blameworthy for this judgment. When I think about relationships, I think of LIFETIME. That goes with Love & Friendship. I don't wanna feel happy just for a moment. I wanna wake up everyday feeling great because I am certain that someone loves me for who I am. Yes! moments are fleeting. If you won't experience it now, you'll regret it later. Despite that, I still want those episodes to be something worthy. Something that I would never be ashamed of telling. A story that would make people smile. It may not happen now, tomorrow or the next day but I am hopeful it will happen one day in this lifetime. I don't wanna settle for less or feel that I need to conceal my feelings. And mostly, to feel that I need to be aware that I have a place where I need to stand. Because I deserve better. I may not be as desirable as other girls but I know I have my ideals & beliefs that I am proud of. I stand with what I believe in because the things you do good or bad will always bounce back to you threefold. 

So, YES! I am Single and you'd have to be special to change that..

BFF!

BFF - BEST FRIENDS FOREVER!
to consider one takes TIME.
FRIENDSHIP unlike LOVE doesn't happen overnight.
It takes TIME to TRUST someone. Because for most part people are not what they seem to be.
Looks are deceiving. One might be as sweet as an ANGEL but is actually a Beelzebub.
Not everyone we meet and get along with will become our BFF. Some will just slip away, some are just acquaintances and some are simply colleagues.
My life is not grand but I am blessed with the BEST FRIENDS in the entire world. We have our differences but we learned to get along. We had the best times together and the worst as well. Our friendship has been tested through tough waters. But still the LOVE we have for each other is much stronger than the winds that shake our faith. Distance is never too far and even if we don't talk for a long time when we catch up it's like nothing has changed. We still laugh at our silly jokes, talk over the same childhood stories, grateful about having each other and hugging & kissing like no one is watching.
That's US. BEST FRIENDS FOREVER.
We argue but we compromise. We have our mood swings but we understand. We don't talk too often but we listen. We are miles apart but we cross the world just to be together. We have our own circle of other friends but our hearts will always have a bigger space for one another.
It's a tie. It's a bond.
Best Friends Forever!
A promise made from the HEART.. :)

Life’s Lessons ♥ _ ♥

They say you can't make all the mistakes in your life to learn from it so you’d have to learn from the people around you.
There will be people who will teach you to be faithful because cheating on your other half only gives you a feeling of excitement but never security & happiness.
A few will advise you to always give your best & work hard because one day your efforts will be appreciated & you will get the position you have always desired.
Some would testify to you that keeping real friends are the best treasures in the world because no one can steal them without their permission.

A couple will make you understand that being crazy & foolish sometimes doesn’t mean losing your values and self-respect.
A lot will share to you that loving someone hurts but it’s all worth it.
Many will warn you to never spend too much on something that you don’t really need because you might have none when you are in need.

Countless folks will show you that crying is not for the weak but for those who are brave enough to express that they have lost something great.
Numerous lads will give you an idea about how they have the power to break a girl’s heart but she is tougher and learns to let go and move on in time.
Several numbers will demonstrate that dreams can come true if you take part in remaking reality.
Most of the time, people will let you know that belonging to an unbroken family is a something to be proud of
Lastly,
All of them will share to you that there is always a reason for living and that there is an Almighty One who will make His judgment.
So they say "Life is a Journey"..
whatever road we are walking on we have to appreciate that Life is beautiful..


credits: video from Youtube. Song: A Beautiful Day by Indie Arie